Who is a Parent Caregiver?

A caregiver is a person who provides care and assistance to a person with limitations related to illness, injury or disability. A parent caregiver is providing care to their child (of any age) who needs some degree of assistance with everyday tasks, beyond what is typical for a person of a similar age. In the context of the film, the term “parent caregiver” refers to parents whose children have temporary or long-term physical, mental, developmental or intellectual disabilities, and those whose children have chronic illness or are considered medically complex. Parent caregivers have additional responsibilities that other parents typically do not. 


Caregiving and Parenting Are Not the Same” by Erin Croyle, The Center for Family Involvement 

What is a Caregiver” from John Hopkins Medicine

On Terminology & Disability Language

There is little agreement on the preferred language to discuss disability. Many of the caregivers we spoke with in connection to the film use the term “special needs” to describe their role as a caregiver or their children. Because of the ubiquity and familiarity of the term “special needs” among nondisabled people, we suggest that it is uniquely effective at introducing a general audience to the broader world of disability, creating opportunities to educate and inform.

There is not currently an accepted way to discuss the level of support needed. The caregivers we spoke with use a variety of terms to describe their child’s support needs, and we believe that this is necessary to characterize their specific caregiving role.

The subjects in the film use the terminology they are personally most comfortable with. We do our best to use the neutral terms “disabled,” “disability,” and “medically complex” in general communications about the film.

While terminology will continue to evolve and the language in the film will likely become dated, we recognize that there are complex issues behind the discussion about disability language, and that word choice matters. Our primary objective is to accurately and honestly portray the experience of some parent caregivers, as they identify barriers and advocate for support for their children and the overall family system.


Disability Language Style Guide, National Center on Disability & Journalism

Disability Language Guide, Stanford University

On Balancing & Aligning the Interests of Caregivers & Disabled Individuals

We believe it’s possible to balance and respect the needs and interests of both disabled individuals and their caregivers, if we make room for complex and nuanced discussions. 

Studies show that the physical and mental health of parents has a direct impact on the well-being of their children. Research also shows that many caregivers of disabled or chronically ill children feel caregiving has worsened their physical health and consider their situation to be emotionally stressful. The connection is clear: if we want to promote the overall health and well-being of disabled individuals, we must also prioritize the health and well-being of those who provide supportive care.

Promoting positive change for families involves identifying the barriers and challenges that caregivers experience. If caregivers do not speak openly and honestly about the challenges they face — out of fear of backlash or judgement from the community — factors that negatively contribute to their physical and emotional health can’t be understood and addressed on the individual, organizational or systemic level.


Mental health of children and parents —a strong connection” from the CDC 

Caregivers of Children: A Focused Look at Those Caring for A Child with Special Needs Under the Age of 18” from AARP

Why Caregiver Well-Being Matters

There are an estimated 16.8 million people in the U.S. who provide care to a child under 18 with disabilities. When you include all U.S. adults who provide unpaid assistance and support to an aging or disabled person, the count reaches 44 million. The body of research on this population makes it abundantly clear that caregivers are at risk.

Caregivers show higher levels of depression, stress and frustration, which can lead to substance abuse and other harmful behaviors directed at themselves or their loved one. They are in worse health and are more likely to develop serious illness. Complicating matters, they are more likely to lack health insurance coverage due to changes to their work situation. Additionally, women account for about two-thirds of all unpaid caregivers, and report both higher levels of depression and anxiety and lower levels of well-being and physical health than male caregivers. 

Caregiver well-being is a public health issue with downstream effects for families, employers, our healthcare system, and our economy — in short, it impacts our shared future. We must explore individual, organizational and policy-level solutions that will enable real, positive change for caregivers and their families. 


A Population at Risk” from the Family Caregiving Alliance

Caregiving in the U.S.” from AARP